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How To Use Bait To Attract And Keep A Man's Attention

Updated: Mar 20

Here's a serious question for you ladies. What bait do you use to get and keep a man's attention?

I wrote a book called Food, Sex & Peace Of Mind: What A Woman Needs To Know To Keep A Man. In this book, I essentially teach women how to fish... for men.

When a woman wants sex, she doesn't have to know to fish for men because men are readily available to partake in sexual activity at the drop of a hat.

However, when it comes to having quality dating experiences, being invited into a relationship or marriage, women all over the world are scratching their heads trying to figure out how to get men to take this action.

Some women have figured it out and are constantly on dates, constantly being asked to be in a relationship, constantly being asked for their hands in marriage, etc, because they have mastered the art of attraction through "baiting".

So what does baiting a man look like? And why is this important for a woman to do?

Baiting is simply the art of attraction; using something that the other person wants to get and keep their attention.

It's not rocket science what men want. Men are quite simple and require very little from a woman. In fact, here are the 3 things men want: Food, Sex & Peace Of Mind.

With this vital information in mind, baiting a man should be painfully easy if you are using things that fall under the umbrella of Food, Sex & Peace Of Mind.

Here are some examples of bait you can use:

Food Bait: Food is the way to a man's heart! Ask a man about his favorite dishes, desserts, beverages, snacks, etc and explore creative and fun ways to invite him into an experience provided by you. Find fun and creative ways to deliver on this guilty pleasure and he will begin to see you as a valuable asset to his life.

Sex Bait: Sex is the way to a man's body. Men are visual creatures. Physical touch is every man's love language. By tapping into your feminine energy, you can use colors, shapes, scents, sounds, words, looks, tastes, moods, feelings and sensual ways to titillate him and have him yearning for more... of you.

Peace Bait: Peace of mind is the most important thing to a man. Although it may seem as though sex is at the top of most men's list, peace is #1. A man is more likely to return to a woman who gives him peace over a woman who merely gives him sex. Find ways to make a man's life life easier; this will bring him peace and will attract him closer to you.

With these 3 key elements, you will successfully be able to attract the attention of any man. Keeping the attention of a man is a totally separate matter entirely. In order for a man to be attracted to you and stay attracted to you, there needs to be a fear of missing out. A woman cannot create this fear is she is too easily accessible and available.

In order to create a fear of missing out, you have to bait the fish, catch the fish, put the fish on ice and then go fish in another pond. This will inspire him to go and seek you out, making every attempt to woo, charm, court and win your affection. When he looks for you and sees that you are fishing in another pond, he will then be more incentivized to offer you value, security and exclusivity in exchange for your bait and fishing rod. See how that works?

However, none of this will work if you have nothing to bait men with. You will be starved of attention, conversation, dates, commitment and marriage proposal because you are not leading with what men find attractive.

The good news is, we all have different kinds of bait we could be using. And we all have the potential to offer more attractive bait to get the attention of the opposite sex.

The question is... what bait are you using? Let me know your thoughts in the comments ladies.

Did you find this blog helpful? Comment below and let me know your thoughts.

In the next 14 Days, I want to show you how to attract your ideal mate. Click here to learn how.

With Love,

Cheyenne Bostock

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