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The 4 Stages Of Cultivating A Healthy Relationship With A Man

Updated: Apr 25


If at any point in your life you've had intimate relations with a man, chances are you have some good, bad and ugly stories that you probably wish you could dump into a sea of forgetfulness. You may have encountered men who were married, engaged, in relationships, liars, cheaters, manipulators, and have wondered why you keep finding yourself mixed up with these kinds of men. If you haven't set up a system that guarantees positive results each and every time you meet a new man, chances are you're not going to be satisfied with what you're getting.

But don't worry, I have a better solution that is going to get you actual results that you can repeat, share and shout from the mountain tops. The best part is, the system is so simple, Once you understand how the system for cultivating a healthy relationship with a man works, you'll never go back to the way things used to be. In this article, I'm going to break down the formula to cultivating a healthy relationship with a man from start to finish.

There are 4 stages to cultivating a healthy relationship with a man; when you read the 4 stages, you'll be able to clearly identify which stage you are currently in, and also which stages you might've skipped in the past. Often times when stages are skipped, information is missed, lost and misinterpreted. Leaving you in a constant state of confusion and dismay, wondering why things are going wrong and how to fix them. Not to worry, these 4 stages (if applied correctly and in order) will set you on the right path to cultivating a healthy relationship with a man within the next 90 days.


What are the 4 stages of cultivating a healthy relationship with a man?

Stage 1: The Identifying Stage

Stage 2: The Qualifying Stage

Stage 3: The Certifying Stage

Stage 4: The Solidifying Stage


What is the purpose of the 4 stages of cultivating a healthy relationship with a man?

Stage 1: The Identifying Stage is for identifying a man's character.

Stage 2: The Qualifying Stage is for gauging compatibility.

Stage 3: The Certifying Stage is for measuring the alignment of values.

Stage 4: The Solidifying Stage is for negotiating the terms and agreement of a relationship.


How long should each stage of cultivating a healthy relationship with a man take?

Stage 1: takes 0-3 minutes to identify good character.

Stage 2: takes 0-3 days to qualify compatibility.

Stage 3: takes 0-3 weeks to certify an alignment of values.

Stage 4: takes 0-3 months to solidify the terms and agreement of a relationship.


What should be the mindset of a woman who is going through the 4 stages of cultivating a healthy relationship with a man?

Stage 1: intentionally looks for signs of good character before exchanging contact information.

Stage 2: strategically asks qualifying questions before agreeing to a first date.

Stage 3: deliberately tests to see if values are aligned before advancing to courtship.

Stage 4: uncompromisingly negotiates the terms and agreements before committing to a relationship.


What should a woman do if she doesn't pass any of the 4 stages of cultivating a healthy relationship with a man?

Stage 1: The Identifying Stage Refrain from exchanging any contact information.

Stage 2: The Qualifying Stage Refrain from any further interaction.

Stage 3: The Certifying Stage Refrain from engaging any further.

Stage 4: The Solidifying Stage Refrain from making any further investment.


What are the potential consequences for a woman who ignores any or all of the 4 stages of cultivating a healthy relationship with a man?

Stage 1: The Identifying Stage Disappointment, frustration and confusion.

Stage 2: The Qualifying Stage Soul ties, time wasted, unwanted pregnancy, STD's.

Stage 3: The Certifying Stage Spiritual warfare, depression, pain and suffering.

Stage 4: The Solidifying Stage Divorce, debt, broken family/home.


What solutions can help women successfully get through the 4 stages of cultivating a healthy relationship with a man?


Stage 1: The Identifying Stage My book Food, Sex & Peace Of Mind will show you how to identify a man's character within 0-3 minutes.






Stage 2: The Qualifying Stage My book Dating Manual For Single Women will show you how to qualify a man within 0-3 days.






Stage 3: The Certifying Stage My E-Course Learn How To Attract Your Ideal Mate In Just 14 Days will show you how to certify an alignment of values within 0-3 weeks.







Stage 4: The Solidifying Stage My Mentorship Program will show you how to negotiate the terms and agreements for a healthy relationship within 0-3 months.










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