Why You Should FaceTime Him Before The 1st Date
Updated: Mar 20
Have you ever gone out on a date with a person, only to find out they weren't who they said they were? This could mean that their picture was outdated, or they were a totally different person completely, or that you weren't as compatible in person as you were over text/chat. I mean nothing sucks more than going out on a 1st date with anxiety, not having any idea what to expect vs going out on a 1st date with anticipation after properly vetting the person.
Thankfully, we now live in a time where we have the technology to get a better feel of an individual's personality, character and values by asking the right questions in advance via video chat. I highly recommend this approach. Doing so will give you so much valuable information about him.
Here's how to do it.
Lets say you met a guy on Monday. He wants to invite you out on Wednesday...
Before you say yes to the date, and commit yourself, you need to make sure there is synergy.
How do I figure out if there's synergy and I haven't even gone out on a date with him yet Cheyenne?
Very simple... schedule a FaceTime phone call with him.
Notice that I said "schedule" the call. Don't just randomly call, and don't allow him to randomly call you.
What him honoring this first scheduled appointment will show you is:
1) He's a man of his word. 2) He values his time and yours. 3) He's genuinely interested. 4) He is who he says he is. Not a catfish. 5) He is excited and anticipating connecting with you. 6) He is mentally prepared to give you his undivided attention.
When you skip this step, you miss the opportunity to gather valuable information about him that will help you more easily determine if this is the type of man you should invest any time in whatsoever.
The difference between a phone call and a video call is, on a video call, you get to look into their eyes and judge their character. Their body language will tell you everything you need to know about how they feel about themselves and how they feel about YOU.
This information is vitally important when choosing to include someone in your life personally and professionally.
Body language and communication through the eyes is an extremely powerful source of information that should be tapped into any and every time you are looking to establish trust or build a meaningful connection with someone new.
What will happen at the end of the video call is, you will have clarity. You will be able to (with confidence) determine if this person is worth more of your time or less.
If after having a video call with a new guy, you feel he is worth more of your time, proceed with the date. If you feel after having a video call, he is worth less or your time... abort.
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